Memoirs

Dear Sissy, Today, I noticed something special in your eyes - a sparkle of joy and happiness that I haven’t seen before, a sparkle that reminds me of little Sakshi when she achieves something she has worked so hard for. Seeing you smile that way filled my heart with pride and happiness. I’ve watched you work so hard, every day, with so much dedication. And today, as you took your first-ever flight, I felt deep sense of joy and pride. You inspire me and Darsh in so many ways and we look up to you, not just because you’re our sister, but because you’re strong, wise, and amazing woman. You’ve grown so much over the years. I’ve never seen you want something without putting in the effort to get it. Being the first in our family to take a flight for a national trip is a big deal to me because I know how much you’ve worked and saved for this moment. Your dreams are big, and your beliefs are strong and they motivate us to dream big too, and not be afraid of going after what we want. You have a...

As the calendar turns its page to a new month, we find ourselves standing at the threshold of August—a month brimming with possibilities. Some of us may have already ticked off the goals we set for 2024, while others might still be on the journey, grappling with setbacks or delays. But here's a gentle reminder: hope is not lost. Embrace your unique path and the journey that comes with it. Your breakthrough could be just around the corner, whether it’s this month or the next. Instead of focusing on what you haven’t achieved yet, let’s take a moment to reflect on the highlights of July. What were the moments that stood out? What habits served you well, and which ones need to be reassessed? Self-reflection is not about self-criticism but about understanding and growth. It’s an opportunity to celebrate your progress and refine your approach. Remember, this journey is not a competition against others but a personal quest. Stay true to yourself, for you are your own greatest ally and eva...

Sitting in my office cafeteria with a cup of black coffee☕, my diary📒, and a pencil in hand✍️, I was trying to write about things📝 inspired by my surroundings. Suddenly, I realized something crucial for any IT professional👩‍🔬👨‍🔬 Read the below piece📜and let me know your thoughts! Tumhare bina, main ek plastic ka tukda hoon, Tumhare saath main woh darwaze ki chabi hoon.  Jo tumhare saath humesa rehta hai, Jiske bina na tum office jaate na office se aate ho,  Jo tumhe us aesthetic workplace mein entry dilwati hai,  Jo tumhari attendance lagwati hai,  Jo tumhe tumhare cabin tak lejati hai,  Jo tumhe ek pehchan dilwati hai.  Arey, nahi pehchana kya mujhe? Main hoon tumhara apna Office Ka ID card,  Tumhari corporate jewellery. I've explored something new and different here. I'd love to hear your thoughts! Feel free to share your feedback or suggest what I should try next✌ Adios, Isha🌸🎀

"Does it hurt?" they ask. "What does this actually mean?" they probe. "Doesn't your mom scold you?" they wonder. I don’t want to answer any of these questions. After all, it's my body, my life, and engraving these arts on my skin is my own secret language, a personal code I choose not to share. Each tattoo carries a deep story, a hidden chapter of my life that helps me navigate this fast-paced world. Every time I get a new tattoo, I feel a rush of vitality, as if I'm evolving into a new character in the story of my life. These tattoos are more than just ink on skin; they are the keepsakes of my journey, the only thing I’ll carry with me to the grave.  For me, each tattoo is a reward for overcoming challenges, a celebration of special occasions, or a way to immortalize a memory I cherish. They represent my morals, values, and beliefs, etched in a way that words alone cannot capture. I love them more than anything because they are the truest expr...

People often say "self-awareness" is important for "self-love". Sounds weighty, But wait, What does that even mean????? Let me put it this way: You let your beliefs come up without judging yourself, you look at them and figure out which ones are holding you back. Once you've done that, you work on changing them. Throughout this process, you stay kind to yourself and stay open to change. And obviously "change is constant", so now you don't let that one belief stop you from trying new things and growing.  In this process, you become chill and flexible and let that self-love shine through. Also sharing something cute I made last Sunday:

T oday, on the 4th of July 2023, I finally sit down to post this blog. It has been a long since my birthday, filled with moments of procrastination😅. But after numerous drafts and several months of writing, I am here now, ready to share this with you. My intention is to offer some helpful insights. I hope you take the time to read it and if you enjoy it, don't forget to leave a heart in the comments❤️ 1. Be grateful for what you have in your life, as this was something you dreamt of years ago. 2. Strive for financial independence, as you never know where life will take you. 3. Don't be a people pleaser; learn to say no when you disagree with something. Speak up for what you believe is right, whether at home, at work, or anywhere else. 4. Gain control over your anger by practicing patience. It's natural to get excited, but avoid making promises you can't keep when happy, and refrain from speaking impulsively when angry. Master your emotions. 5. Don't let anyone dist...

        "Many thoughts I have but little to say." Hey, I am an introvert and I don't feel like it is my weakness or a flaw, neither it is something that stops me from doing things that I want. Rather, it's a gift for me. I have a simple approach to my life and I need my time to recharge myself. I am not the only person who is an introvert, they are everywhere. Introverts are not antisocial or shy, it is just people's misconceptions. It is not always that networking, parties, and other phases aren't intended for us, we can find socializing, fun like anyone but after some time we need to recharge by staying away from everyone. People usually find loud, happy, and confident people attractive, while those who speak softly are easily left out. Scientists also proposed that there are two chemicals in our brain, namely dopamine, and acetylcholine. When we are adventurous or meet new people, dopamine is like an energy stimulus, it makes the feeling of extroversion bea...