Between Holding On and Letting Go

You know how they say time flies? Well, that's true, but memories, they don't disappear so easily. The moments you share with someone special don’t just fade away. They linger, becoming a part of you. You don't really move on from those memories; instead, you learn to live with them, accepting the beautiful chaos they bring into your life.

To keep moving forward, you sometimes have to be practical, setting aside those memories, moments, and even the people tied to them. Life continues for everyone, and as it does, it teaches you lessons, shapes your character, and imparts wisdom. It shows you who you really are. And with these lessons in mind, you press on, knowing that dwelling on the past won’t reveal the beautiful story that’s yet to unfold or the unexpected turns that lie ahead.

They both knew it wasn’t easy. At least, that’s what she believed. During their last conversation, he said, “Goodbye before I break down and tears start falling.” Little did he know, she was probably already crying, not just from her eyes, but from her heart.

Isn’t it strange how two people can love each other so deeply yet not make the effort to stay together? They hold back, thinking the other would be happier without them. But what else can you do? They say, “If you love someone, set them free; they will come back, if they’re yours.” Doesn’t that seem foolish?

If you truly want something, you should fight for it. Go after it. The desire to be together should come from both sides, not just one.

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